this is a link to the banner font that you have to buy
http://www.fonts.com/FindFonts/detail.htm?pid=203740
Hmm ... if it doesn't need the shade, there are a lot of (free) script fonts around that give more or less the same feeling. You'll have to make your own pick. Have you looked at the script fonts here? Not good enough? This may be of help making up your mind.You can also try dafont (sorry Alex), also has a load of scripts. Many the same of course but maybe you're lucky. Still nothing? Have a look at free-fonts.com/script_fonts.html.
If all of this is no good you might want the real thing. Buy it, or, because fonts.com kindly gave you the file name: Google it without the extension and you'll discover it lives in the wild in France in an open directory (thus exclude the file name). It is Type 1, not ttf, so you will need all 4 files. WinXP can handle Type 1 so no problem. Remember: do not save to, but copy to your fonts folder. You may need a restart.
I Like the looks of Banner but don't want to have to pay for it. Is there a free font that is similar? It does not have to have the shadow effect.